My daughter is losing her first teeth and a few days ago I listened as her father gave her the little talk about how her baby teeth were a trial set so that she could learn how to take care of her teeth and now she would have to take very good care of her permanent teeth because she would not be getting any more. I think young bodies are somewhat analogous to baby teeth. You had a trial body in your youth to practice on and now you have your permanent body to take good care of. As we live through our fourth or fifth decades, we begin to notice that our bodies do not have the same resilience they once did. Low quality food gives us indigestion; we just aren’t able to function very well on little sleep; it takes us longer to recover from exertion. Many of us feel frustration or anger as our bodies seem to betray us or depression and despondency as we resign ourselves to never having the vigor of our youth.
The truth is that eating low quality food, not getting enough sleep, and exertion without rest and rejuvenation were never fine for your body, even in your twenties. You still felt cranky when you didn’t eat right, and exhausted after an all-nighter. Spend a little time with some college students on a Monday morning and see if you revise your memory of youthful resilience. The difference is that a young person will forget how bad she or he felt by the time Friday rolls around again. The older person will remember and be unwilling to repeat the Monday morning experience so soon. Now as an older person, you have lost the tolerance for feeling bad. You have the wisdom and experience to know that you prefer feeling good and that you can make choices that will lead you in that direction. This wisdom is a valuable gift, because now without youthful amnesia and resiliency protecting you from your mistakes, you must listen to your body and give it what it needs to feel good.
Most of us know that children need limits in order to maintain balance and health. If a child stayed up until 2am and then was sullen and lethargic the next day, we would say, “Oh, you are feeling bad because you didn’t get enough sleep.” If a child ate a bunch of sugar and then threw a temper tantrum we would say, “Too much sugar makes you feel bad.” If a child has been indoors and still all day, we say, “Of course you don’t’ feel good, you need some fresh air and exercise.” We generally know that children shouldn’t have too much caffeine or drink alcohol. And, they have the young resilient bodies!! Why do we expect our bodies to behave differently in such circumstances?
Of course there are differences between young and older bodies. Of course, your body changes as you get older. Your insulin uptake system becomes more sluggish. When you eat carbohydrates, particularly simple carbohydrates, your pancreas releases insulin into your bloodstream to drive that sugar out of your blood into fat stores. A young body is able to clean the insulin out of the blood much faster than an older body. An older person’s insulin is still driving blood sugar into fat for a longer time. This means that carbohydrates turn into fat more readily in an older person. So, it is true that a young person can eat more sugar without getting as fat. A young person can have a diet higher in carbohydrates and burn them off as energy easier than an older person. An older person needs to eat more complex carbohydrates and more protein and fats combined with carbohydrates to feel good. But, so does a young person. As we all know, a donut and a coke doesn’t help a person of any age feel good for very long. And, no exercise and lots of junk food will make any person fat and unhealthy, regardless of age.
Your musculature and connective tissue also change over time. Truth is, you have less human growth hormone and slower thyroid function as you age. While a young person can exercise sporadically and overdo it with less soreness and faster recovery, an older person has to exercise regularly and wisely to keep limber and fit. An older person has to pay more attention to getting enough sleep, keeping well hydrated, stretching regularly and dealing with injuries. An older person generally has more scar tissue and fascial adhesion (see the article about fascia in the Basics section) than a young person, because he or she has had more injuries and more chronic stress. Skilled fascial release and Neurosomatic therapy will rejuvenate these stressed tissues and relieve the pain that makes being active uncomfortable. A regular stretching routine – like B3Dbody – will keep your joints and muscles balanced and flexible.
If you want to feel like a kid again, you have to take care of your body like we tell kids to take care of their bodies. Get enough sleep. You have less growth hormone, so you need to get your full measure of it. Growth hormone is only secreted when you are deeply asleep. Eat a balanced, nutritious diet with few simple carbohydrates. Exercise sensibly and regularly. Drink plenty of WATER (not tea or coffee or soda or juice.) Drink only small amounts of alcohol or caffeine. (I will elaborate on these topics in subsequent posts.)
Your permanent body still has all the essential ingredients to feel wonderful and keep you very happy, but it takes some effort to keep it that way. And, thankfully, unlike tooth decay, some unhealthy choices along the way are not irreversible. If you start treating your permanent body right, it will heal and grow and be healthy. In your twenties, you got an extra spurt of resilience so that you could make some mistakes and gain some wisdom and experience. Now you can use that wisdom and experience to keep yourself healthy into your seventh, eighth and ninth decades.